Rules of Flirting

Frankly speaking flirting is an art and you need special skills 

to master it. You do not have to be some beauty queen or a 

celebrity to make guys fall for you and go gaga over you. All 

you need is your gorgeous smile and few guaranteed flirting 

tips like the ones you'll find below to attract the opposite 

sex. 

Rule 1 # Eyes have it all:



Lock eyes with the person you're flirting with for a full five 

to six seconds, then smile and drop your gaze. Please don't 

stare at him and make him feel embarrassed. Just give him 

a soft smoldering look and look away. Do this at least three 

times in a ten to fifteen-minute period. This way you will 

make him know that you are interested and approachable. 

Rule 2 # Smile:

Smiling is absolutely the most effective tool in your flirting 

toolbox. Psychology and body language experts agree that 

one of the most important things you can do to make 

yourself more attractive (and approachable) is to smile. 

Rule 3 # Expose your neck:

One of the most winning flirting techniques a woman can 

use is the exposure of her neck. This can be done with a 

head tilt to one side, the classic hair flip or the over-the-

shoulder glance. According to body language experts this 

asymmetrical position attracts attention, exposes your 

neck, and makes a woman very attractive and sexy. The 

over-the-shoulder move also sends a signal to your target 

that he is worth a second look. 

Rule 4 # Lip Service:



Both men and women are subconsciously attracted to red, 

moist lips because they signal youth, sex and fertility. 

Always wear a red lipstick which not only gives your lips that 

youthful colour, but also makes your smile more visible and 

your teeth whiter. A super-shiny lip gloss can also give you 

an advantage, making your lips look moist and kissable. 

Rule 5 # Focus, Focus, Focus:

Once you and your flirting target have started talking, use 

these tips to deepen the attraction. First, smile and 

maintain eye contact as you are speaking, and focus all of 

your attention on what he is saying. If you aren't listening 

then that shows that you are not interested. Smiling and 

laughing are crucial here - it's the quickest, easiest way to 

put another person at ease and make a connection. Finally, 

another effective flirting technique is low-level touching 

such as brushing the shoulder or elbow.
"We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People 

make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the 

actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

Pause and ponder. Think before you act. Be patient. Forgive 

& forget. Love one and all.

If you judge people, you have no time to love them". -- 

Mother Teresa